This interview was first published on the Gospel Coalition Canada website.
When did you start practicing family worship?
How do you practice family worship in your home?
Read
Catechize
Sing
Pray
Advice for families starting out
It doesn’t require a whole lot of prep time on your part, just start reading the Bible together.
Every family is different and there is no right or wrong way. The most important thing is exposing your children (and you) to the Word of God. Our family worship times usually only last 10–15 minutes; so it doesn’t have to be long. The important thing is to get started and to allow the Lord to direct you.
If you are a couple without any kids, then it goes without saying that you can still have times of family worship. You just have more freedom to worship in a manner that suits you. I would say the same thing to grandparents. Your kids may have left many years ago, but that shouldn’t stop you and your spouse from studying God’s Word and worshipping together. When you visit the grandkids, do what you can to teach them the Bible (Deut 6:7) and to model a life of worship.
Whether it is our immediate family, our church family, or the global family of God, God has placed us together. We grow together, we worship together, we rejoice together, and we weep together. What a brilliant plan!
Recommended resources
We are blessed to live during a time where there are many great resources available. Here are some links that I would recommend along with brief explanations:
New City Catechism—NCC is fantastic! 52 questions and answers to help teach your children doctrine and theology and ground them in the Christian faith.
The Gospel Story Bible—I have lost track of how many copies of this book we have given away. It includes 156 stories from Genesis to Revelation that show how everything in Scripture points us to Jesus. Highly recommended!
Do all that you can to foster a love of singing in your children. How? Through singing. Most kids already love to sing so all you have to do is keep them singing. Grace Community Church has recently put together a modern Hymnbook that we have benefited from. I would also recommend Seeds Family Worship. These bible-based songs are fast-paced and your kids will grow to love them.
Over the last couple of years, our family has also started to listen to podcasts. There are plenty of great podcasts out there, but let me recommend just three. John Piper’s Solid Joys, my friend Champ Thornton’s In the Word, On the Go, and Steve Nichols’ 5 Minutes in Church History. These podcasts are usually between 4–10 minutes and are excellent.